Divorce in today's marriage by Mazi Odera 

After I read how Psquare marriage was dissolved by Abuja court and the wife who had intention of making the Ex HUSBAND a source of her livelihood with the new HUSBAND ,how she was left with absolutely nothing,I smiled a thank you to the gods and court who made things right.

Then I read that Basketmouth one of the best Comedian in Nigeria also divorced as well, and YUL Edochie is holding his own with Super glue and I say let me bunye anyi Uche.

I mentioned the above 3 individuals because they are Celebrities and this Generation looks up to them ,so they are good for illustration of do's and don't.

You marry a girl because she is pretty, because she can maintain her quota on conjugal mating, and she crave for housemaids or you heap maids on her because you do not want her to suffer,well ...the way you lay your bed you sleep on it ,if your wife is not a help mate but your partner in all sense of it ,the spirit of entitlement will enter her and don't ask me the end result as you know even before asking.

Ifukwolu the use of FRUIT WINE for Marriage Identification parade which we have turned now to charade,that have some hand in this twisted abortive marriages.

Look at the bottle of the Fruit wine (Combination of Flavor and unstable chemicals) ,you will see the expiring date etched at the end or bottom of the bottle ,and as the drink is getting expired,the marriage expires as well ,it has nothing to hold it as traditional setting expired also with the charade.

The drink for the parade is original Native PALM WINE,if you think you are Born again and won't indulge in such act which your Church may call unholy ,just change the name from Traditional WINE carrying to ENGLISH WINE carrying,also don't pay Dowry as that is traditional DOING,maybe you just give it to your Pastor for onward transfer to your in-laws..

Your wife always fix her nail like WITCHES OF ENDOR and you think it doesn't matter,she pay more attention to her Outlook ,her societal ratings and not about family values and you say "It is her life ",the day she accept to marry is the day it stop being her life but family life,if she wants to retain her hold of cruise,then she should abort the union and go on hooking up on Hook ups.

Well Hear me you woman,if you don't jump down from your high horse,you will be telling your stories on Social MEDIA how wicked your HUSBAND was and why you left the second and third marriage as well , but hear me,rolling stone gathered no Moist ,that you blackmailed your Husband and Children makes you a sadist and sympathetic nymph.

Like me or hate my counsel,just know that ejiro I won't tolerate eje ije di (You don't enter into marriage with I don't tolerate,I can't take that nonsense,take me as I am),that works on Facebook but never on realities , especially on African setting OUR SETTING.

We are Africans and we are Christians,the Bible from Christian side provides that the HUSBAND is the absolute head of the family,so where did you get the version of Partnership which makes you full part of the Union ?.

African setting makes a Man Nnam Ukwu (Bigger Father)but many of you are calling your husband Baby,well spirit of babies keep entering them and sometime they behave like baby, sometime they eat any FOOD they see because as baby they know no bounds,if you call your husband Baby and think it is modern,then continue and carry your cross of a baby effect.

IN Bible ,they call husband "My Lord" and he protects the wife with all he got for life .

In ALAIGBO they call HUSBAND Nnam Ukwu and he plays the role for life ,even when it is not conducive he will go the distance to make his house a home .

This Generation think the Man is a scarf on her head ,well small breeze the scarf will be like powder in the wind.

Just go back to the ways that pleases both God and mankind,so you can live a fulfilled life .

Men,read my lips and hate me now but the truth I must shove TRUTH into your Brian ...

Once you send your Wife and Children Abroad to live because NIGERIA is hopeless,just know you have loose them completely without apologies,that they still call you on phone is because you send them money from NIGERIA,once reverse is the case ,just know you must start life anew with brand new Wife and start making children ,if not Either you join them out there and die of heart attack because your wife you know is not the one you will meet OVERSEAS,the one you marry was a wife,the one you send out is a Tigresses and oga adogi Vam Vam Vam .

If you want to enjoy your life,where you stay your family Stay and take your headship back again.

If you live OVERSEAS she must stay with you, whatever you see you manage.

If you live in LAGOS or Abuja bring her and the kids to squat with you , distant marriage is the first killer...ekwuchakwam ..

Let me go and judge the chickens in my Farm and know which of them should be sentenced to death next tomorrow for crime I won't announce.

Mazi Odera POg JP, Mkpisi Ndi Egede reporting for better family initiatives.