The lesson to life ,and Advise to Men , written by Mkpisi Ndi Egede.
Police in Gusape Abuja have charged the killers of Lucky Adimike to court,lo and behold they are..the First Son,the First daughter and her friend which internet called Gay partner.
As BIZARRE as the situation is ,as much as we abhor the act let's circumspect,so we can circumvent Maka échi..
Those Children may not be DNA setted or determined as speculated ,but let me tell us that it's not the reason, because once Children grew up under your care ,they became your children through and through, nothing will separate them or turn them against you.
What was lost to make this Children deffinace was the fact that both mother and daughter failed in raising one united family in love and purpose as they make more time in pursuit of wealth.
Be in notice that adighi afónye Aka na abó na onû at same time,you can't eat your cake and have it at same time.
In the morning before or around 7 or when the kids are going to school,the parents are rushing out to business or work ,then children comes back home and stay alone without presence of either parents because they were busy making money and unmaking the children. Maybe there's Maid ,house help but no parents who can scold them right,as paid house help and maids will work with trepidation or get sacked or even locked for raising voice on the children,so they work not walk them right,as parents are the authority that will walk the children even with Rod of correction.
Some people will advise you carry your wife along to your business every step of the way ,so she can cope in your absence,well they may be right,but there will be timing,if your wife should be in your business,she must be back home before 4 Pm ,so she can take care of the family ,cook for the children,chat with them ,know the friends and generally make them feel they have caring parents,not distant parents. And see how they flex ,know when they deviate in things of life.
Husband and wife should not be getting home when Children are weak and may have eaten dinner and ready to sleep,which mean the day is gone and life moves on ,but never forget you remove love out of the life of the children and they will be going into undefined hibernative lifestyle.
When husband and wife makes it duty to come back at night,they are cracking the family and denying the children that special love of parenting. One at least must be around to spend time with them after hustle and bustle of the day ,when they suppose to discuss affairs of the day,as they cannot discuss same with maid or house help,so it leaves them to discuss with peers and that's dangerous.
Yes , it's good to make money , but worse to unmake your own family,you can't have good family and good business that's taking your time .
As a man set the time for your business,when to close ,not when the business want you to close .
If you make your time table for life ,then you will have a benefitting life and family. Money can come at a flow ,don't let the love of money determine your flow in life.
Children growth take shape in life while at Teen (thirteen, Fourteen, fifteen, sixteen, seventeen, eighteen, nineteen) all the ages that ended with Teen.
They need parents to know when they deviated,give them attention,give them time ,give them love ,so that your tomorrow can be guaranteed .
This is advisory,you can have it or throw it ,but let it be a lesson to us .
I am Mazi Odera POg JP, Mkpisi Ndi Egede and I come in peace