THE REAL PROBLEM OF REGINA DANIELS , righting the WRONG, written by Mkpisi Ndi Egede.
Nigerian Ladies are always acting playing Mantis,they forgot na onye bulu Chi ya uzó,ogbagbue onwe ya na ósó.
We always try to cover excrete with Sand , forgotten that a small crawl from ordinary fowl ,it will stench the environment.
My Old Man told me na Nkita Nwanyi zúrú na ata Akwa Ókúkó and it's the truth, raising a child under the pretext of strong Single mother is a taboo in Africa, and we should know na Mba na asú na olû (According to dialect) but when cough,the Sound is same .
The consequences of marrying and fleeing from marriage because of self importance doesn't benefit children,rather it set them asunder from good future, making me to always Beg ,do not rush into marriage because you see whiff of money ,one thing we should learn in life is that there always Price Tag to every merchandise,if you want to be Nwunye Odogwu,can you pay the price of Nwunye Odogwu or you prefer to cry in Ferrari than rejoice in Keke ,but at a slight bump inside the Ferrari you will be shouting na Chi gi Egbue gi ,you should know that living in luxury has the padded advantage and has it's down side effect ,so you eat, drink and cry or you don't go into it to start with or just cry in Peace without spraying saliva ,but moving on..
The reason Regina's marriage is fallen apart is because a single Mother decided her Path ,she didn't consider the Man that brought the Child into life. She went into marriage without father's blessings.
Listen Lady ,on the day of your marriage,it's your Father that will give you out .
Hand you his blessing,if he is indispose,he will nominate a proxy.
That nomination has the accolades of the gods .
That father's blessing is what hold marriage,your mother do not have the requisite Decanter to pronounce martial blessings upon a child.
If your parents are apart for want of reasons,make sure they reconcile or you plead with your father to perform his Daddy role which is giving you out in marriage. Your mother doesn't have that mantle and can't experiment with your future.
Also Note this , whenever your Mother tells you how Demonic your father is , simply tell her that it's not your business,that the problem is between Husband and wife and not between Father and Daughter.
You are not part of the problem they had ,also always discuss with them as independent party ,do not side with your Mother as she must lie and blame your father for all the evil she plotted and failed.
Also do not side with your father,if they made mistake , you are not part of it or collateral.
Just reach out to your Father and have a detailed discussion with him and always see both of them as your parents, if they don't like each other , it's not your business,they can quarrel all they want,but let them not use you to be the buffer.
Feel free with both of them and never believe any sad story from any,unless what you witnessed,not what they told you , especially how one abandoned you ,you weren't there to ascertain the cause, or to know if it was abandoned siege or chasing out by bad influence ,never even believe it ,unless you witnessed and even when you witnessed,they are both adult they should handle problem how they entered into it , yours is to have parents that doesn't hurt your future.
Your Future is not Ping pong they will use as exercise.
Regina Father did not give his consent to the marriage, wasn't in the know of his daughter getting married and you think the gods are crazy?.
If the Man was in the know,I bet you he must resolve this without anybody hearing it , because he will place blame where it is and make appeal where it's NEEDED.
In condemning Sen Ned and the marriage,we should know that He is a Muslim and they have marriage standard and can't be harassed or judged with Southern standard and expectation.
You enter IKEJI Izuogu,just know na aga efe Aju,ma kokwa Nsi, it's just the standard.
Unless ,they involved Regina's father and he wade into Men's mode ,meet with the in-law,they will have Man to Man talk and he make peace with the daughter and husband,read my lips Regina will not even see Keke to cry inside and the Best Social Media will do is to rant and move on .
Mazi Odera POg JP looking at the Saturday ERECTION and wondering what Next?
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