Sermon on Ladies

And the Lady build house on her Father's Land as it rages, my angle by Mkpisi Ndi Egede.

Happy Sunday folks, the saying which provides "Ikwu amaghi Ibe eziya, is a great metaphor".

Ladies Born in Africa, Married in Africa, I come to you as an Uncle, just forget those Social Media Living JEZEBEL, they have a mission which includes to set many marriages apart, to make old ages filled with regrets and extreme bitterness, most of them messed up toward getting married or staying married, so they remember that misery love company and they want companies.

Dear Young Lady, as you look in the Mirror naked and everything is proportional, your nose still stands like Sign of the Cross, the contour on your chest which makes your breast to stand like Cardinal Point still makes your head to swell and it makes Male head to spin, just know that that your own Mother and Grand Mothers was once like yours, but when it perform the duties it came to do on earth, it will retire with tiredness and the only help Brassiere will do is momentarily upliftment.

I said the above to bring you up to speed, now come with me let's sit at the BANK of Mmiri Ere and discuss heart to heart.

No need to be nasty to me,  no need to use your evil Tongue to attack me, as I don't know the difference between teaching you and correcting you,  I simply shove it down your throat with smile but the mission is to let our Wives understand that marriage is not like Cutex one can change the color at wish. 

My only mission with this sermon is to make our wives, daughters, sisters, Aunty to stay married, forget all this modern day Ikwurigba parading as Slay Queens, after all, slay means to Kill and watch any Slay queen, she must have slayed all the Child in her womb, slay all the Joy in her heart, slay her old age and she has nothing to love for, she just want to make sure she roams- to and Fro seeking younger Girls to devour.

Let me start with Getting Married and staying married in Africa as a continent..

 I come to us as an African Man lived his life Overseas and learn the unfortunate Cultures of the West, married to African Real wife, have an African Original Mother who understands the sacrifice of motherhood, she stayed even when we have Poverty like part of life and she built us along with our Old Man with Joy that not even the wife of Bill gate can ever get, have Daughters of Blue blood African descent, so when I talk, I am not talking go gentiles, I am talking to us including my own relations and that you choose not to agree is different ball Game and your burden, never mine.

In the beginning of life, when and after God created Man in his own image and likeness, he usually come down to Garden of Eden at dawn to play with Man and it was a good company, then God added a great Burden to Adam when he made him sleep and from his ribs extracted a Bone that bent the life of humanity, so he created EVE and that was when History of good relationship with Man skewed... 

Moving on, let's come down to today's world, Adam went out to Hustle and Serpent who Adam never knew about came into his house and Cheat with Eve, whatever shape the Cheating took is not my business but Bible said that after that meeting and melting, Adam provoked God as head of the family, and God drove them out from his own special Garden. 

Imagine that if was a man who stayed with a SHE Serpent and when the woman came back and he told her"We Chop the Apple and it was sweet", that very day, God won't be coming to ask them where are you, he will come with host of Angels to know why the garden was set on fire and why they cut down all the Trees and Bush in that Garden. 

When Abram got married with Sarai, let's read Genesis 12 "14 When Abram came to Egypt, the Egyptians saw that Sarai was a very beautiful woman. 15 And when Pharaoh’s officials saw her, they praised her to Pharaoh, and she was taken into his palace. 16 He treated Abram well for her sake, and Abram acquired sheep and cattle, male and female donkeys, male and female servants, and camels.

17 But the Lord inflicted serious diseases on Pharaoh and his household because of Abram’s wife Sarai. 18 So Pharaoh summoned Abram. “What have you done to me?” he said. “Why didn’t you tell me she was your wife? 19 Why did you say, ‘She is my sister,’ so that I took her to be my wife? Now then, here is your wife. Take her and go!” 20 Then Pharaoh gave orders about Abram to his men, and they sent him on his way, with his wife and everything he had.". 

Abram landed in Egypt and age of 77 and left at age of 99. 

The day he landed, Pharaoh's official took his wife Sarai to meet  the King, who Took her as the Wife, read VS 19.. Then Abram made wealth which shows it wasn't over night... Well the bottom line was that Sarai the wife of Abram lived and was married to Pharon the King for over 20 years and Abram took her back without Divorce, without breaking her bones, without any bad attachment.. But watch the same scenario.. Just that same Sarah donated her Maid to Abram, so that Abram don't have to marry another wife, just one Night and the wife that was married to another Man for 20 years pushed the Family into crisis, which made Ishmael to come to be and since then War has never stopped between the Sane and the Insane in middle East. 

So you young girl that has been running around to catch your Man cheating, what do you think you stand to gain, if you catch him and he told you point blank that he wants to marry 10 wives, but you will be the first wife?.

What will you do? Cry, shout, call your parents to come and flog him, tell him it is a lie? Or start a Defence that it can't happen in this house, whose house are we talking about?.. 

Listen Dear, once such scene comes to play, you loose in whichever way as even your Father can only appeal with the man or take you  back where you will become "Used by another Man". 

You may boil like Plantian inside Pot and on top of Gas, you can rant and rave but read my Lips, an African Man even in Bible days are supposed to be wise and we know that Solomon the wisest man on Earth got wise or rated because he married 700 wives and 300 Concubines,Unless you think Bibles lied and or that it should not be in the Bible, but as long as it remains there just use your head. 

There are lots of sacrifice to make marriage work, which without it, it won't work. 

But you must know that marriage is never for unmatured irritant ladies, it is for those who think they have found favor to manage even a a sick Man, even a man whose fault is his Dick, even a man who is insatiable but know that out of all those faults, God gave you that burden of having him as yours, just bend your knees in prayers and knock him back into shape and grace. 

Many Young girls will shout, I was with him when he had nothing, after we build it together he wants to bring another to enjoy it... 

No Vex, relax let me ask you..while the suffering you inferred to was ongoing, did you went out there to borrow money and kick start his business or you was around harassing his life, telling him how useless a man he is by not providing for you all that you ever needed? 

Did you sale your father's land and invest the money on his head? 

Did you starve for the business to survive?.. Or because you was around increasing his pains and later he made it and you think you are part of it? 

Part of Pains of success?.. 

How can you fix self as part of it please, explain let me know. 

Back to Wife Building house in her Father's place, no matter how poor your parents was, if you did not have enough to build them a house as a Spinster, it means your financial capacity hasn't grown, so it prospered with the protection of the Man who married you and it might for a reason, so both of you can build a new Home, not for you to stand and live under his protection and build a different home, unless you had in mind that your marital place is just a transit point, that you can go back to your Father after all. 

You are a Thief for doing such without your Husband consent, don't say it is your money, it is the family patrimony. If you think it is not the family money, pack out, stay out or move back to your father's house, that way you can Build and enjoy it as well. 

After building the House, don't you think that you will have the urge to go back and enjoy the sweat of your brows?. 

If you can hide such from your husband, then you must have hidden many things from him including the DNA of his Children. 

If you are mine or close to mine, there is no discussion about it, you personally ended the marriage the day you plan for such and I will assume you have poisoned me SPIRITUALLY, and there is no basis for the MARRIAGE to continue, because if you can do that and still sleep with me at night, you are more treacherous than SATAN. 

Sure, you have good mind to remember your family, but doesn't it irk you that your family is where your former family abandoned you? 

Do you know why your parents did change of ownership on you?  

Do you know why even your mother handed you over to another family and by Law they became your Father and Mother approved by Law which is called FATHER IN LAW, MOTHER IN LAW, BROTHER AND SISTER IN LAW?.. by Law they are your family, if you happens to have unfortunate medical condition that warrants you have a major operation, it is your Husband that will sign not your father or brother. 

If you breath last, your remains gets buried in your Husband house and not your Father's house. 

If you go to your Father's house, if he is sensible like a Man, he will ask you, How is your Family?, how is your Husband and others and the next question should be When are you going back home?.. Which demands which home?.. 

The Home is question is your home, where you are consigned to live the rest of your life, your home is where you changed your Surname to, where you have children that makes you a woman, where you wakes up and say this is my Home. 

If you sleep in your father's house for 3 days even neighbors will be worried and your own Mum, if she is not area scatter will be the one asking you to leave her house to your house. 

If you have a Husband you think is cheating, your business is with your knees, you pray him into senses, if you think confrontation does it, then your Stupidity is in Quarantine somewhere. 

Lady it is wrong, so wrong to build a house in your Father's house whereas in your own home, a place you call home, where you are raising your own, there is no house. 

You got married to build a home, not to be stealing from your own home to your Father's house. 

Imagine what you will do if your own sons wife do same to your Son. 

It is wrong to struggle and send your siblings abroad or set them up while in marriage, you can do that before signing the dotted line of I do, but once you are married, all you have, yes you heard me, ALL YOU HAVE is no longer yours, but your marital family own. 

You know many atimes Ladies think they are financial independent, so they can't take any shit from any Man. 

Some will leave the marriage, but watch them they still cling on the man's name, why not remove your Husband Surname and go back to your Father's own?. 

With your Financial status and no Husband, many  Meetings of your peers can't accept you, the society can't respect you, Men can only have you just to satisfy sexual urge and not because they respect or will respect you. 

With your Jeep you are crusing, the Fat bank account, that married woman selling Tomatoes rates higher than you and there is nothing you can do about it, it is culture, it is life, it is not fair but nothing has ever been fair in life.

Imagine the women of Bible, they don't even count them in Census, they will say Jesus Fed 5,000 Men, women and Children not counted, yet they understood that it is what and how God made it, but today all the Social Media Ladies wants to wrestle God for being God. 

Ladies, stay safe, stay married and use your knees in prayers that's the way to stay above Satan and his gimmicks. 

I am Last Born Mpa Nnukwu and I humbly submit.