Dissecting families..

 Family, let's scatter this Table, ogbasadim by Last Born.

Good Morning Parents, not because we deserve compliments but because I was raised in the Era when you can't pass an Elder without greeting, if you try it, they will ask, whose Child is this?, did they give him home training at all?.. So it was a ritual that served well while growing .

This Morning I am going about with the dictates of Mpa Nnukwu, plus I speak the language of the Initiates and never that of the acolytes , so don't expect me to fall into your fancy or what they call everybody's standard, actually Mazi Odera is a BRAND for tomorrow. 

Wealthy Father's.. You are so busy to look into the lives of your Children to see how they are fairing with society, but surely you gave them more than enough money, Cars with lots of things that makes one comfortable without ability, so they don't need anything at all, they just have to be useless to the society after all they have a caring parents who do not want them to explore the potentials God placed in them... Dianyi, that's okwu onye Nkwu (Reason of Drunks), what your Family need is supervision, monitoring and showing them love, money counts but money which one doesn't earn makes Children to become more stupid in life.

Some of Us have Kids in University and you have not visited them, because it is far away and you are too busy for such Visit and you have to give them space to live like other kids , kindly clap for yourself because you suck as a Father. 

Your responsibility is not to donate Sperm that brought them to life and then bring money that help them to become useless and senseless .

Raising Family entails being a friend to them, confide in them, they confide in you and  they can approach you as a friend and not foe, you also approach them and see in them friends. 

Some Father's give too much money to the Children and it enters into thier head, they went to University as place of Ikwo Ndu and never as place to read and get set for life, they pass through school but the school did not notice them, then you bought them certificate or you provided the money they used to buy such... And even after graduation, your child can't find a Job or if you buy them one, they can't stay with it or function because they don't even need the money after all pocket money from Daddy is higher than the Salary of his or her Boss, so who can caution the child?.

Most of such Kids, if they graduate as Lawyer not even the parents will allow them to write ordinary agreement for them because aru ga eme. As Medical student, you can't allow him or her to admister treatment or recommendations to member of the Family, after all they live lives of drunkard or party freak, a life they got used to because the parents provided useless endowment to them. 

Don't worry, when you're aged, the Son and daughter you wasted thier Youth by shielding them from taking on responsibility assigned to them by Nature and God will become heart attack to you.

Since what they learn from you is how to waste money or squander the sweat of others but never on how to make money or make useful usage of same, oga afanye gi na eze.

Many of us here don't know if thier own Children knows how to cook because of the Unbranded and untrained Woman we have at home as Wife, because they are more of Mannequin than a wife, since your Wife who is not working, so that can be said she gets tired after work, which also is not a reason at all, but can be accepted in the  context of argument, but a House wife that can't contribute to any house expense and then she can't even do house Chore and you the Husband think you are enjoying life because you have a cook, maid, Gateman and other helps?..

Wife is suppose to cook for the Husband and the Children, then at 13/14 Both Boys and Girls should learn how to cook, which will help them when they enter Secondary school, which most Mothers will make the Man push the Children to Boring house sorry I mean Boaden House, so the house will be free for the Mother to enter another phase of agbogho, atimes I see some of them in Hotels with Boys young enough to be the Sons while the Man is out sourcing for well being of the family.

So as a father, you should come back atimes and demand that your children cook for you, so you rate them, that way when the Girls marry, you are not giving them away as Adaka na Onu Enwe, if they are in University, they won't depend on friends for feeding or eating from Restaurants to Hotels, they can cook thier own.. 

So they can also cook for the Husband, as for a married Man whose Cook or maid cook for, pua na Uzo ka married Men kpa Nkata (Shift married Men wants to talk)..

 Infact, if you ask me, the need for Maid is obsolete as you train them and untrain your daughters, as they depend on maids.. Imagine the kind of Motherless life they have.

Wives should Cook for her immediate family, that way she makes sure the food are clean and tasty, wives are our last Defence and not defiance, not business partners even if she is, that is in office but her duty as a wife starts with cooking and not ceding her job to a maid or cook. 

By the way as a Rich Man, do you know you are in control of many Lives?.. The reason God gave you abundant wealth is to make you the ATM for the Poor, not that you struggle more than others that made you Rich, agbakam mbo bu Nri onu, ogaranya si na Chi (Struggle can only put food on the Table, wealth is God's reward) .. But he gave you wealth, so you can distribute to the less privilege but many of you think they struggle had for what they have, forgetting that if God so choose, you can loose all the money in a week and sale off all the mansions you built which you only live in one room, I can bet us here that there are Rooms in a Rich man's house that has never been slept upon since it was built.. 

There are Cars the owner have never seat upon, yet around him are very very very poor souls, who if the Rich can touch thier lives, there will be maximum turn around in lives and the Children will not become terror to your Children in years to come but abandon them, they become potential terror to your tomorrow. 

The money God gave you is stupendous for a reason, you can pile it and moan at it just to feel great, well God will be watching you and if you can't help another soul to grow, he may simply give you 3 Different terminal disease for you to manage with the money and while you battle the sickness which is punishment for not being answered prayers to others , atimes God prefer using us to answer many prayers, but if you wants to tell him that you are not in his class, he may even make your Children Efulefu who will take delight na imazu Ego and once you die they will sale all of those things you acquired , use the proceed to smoke Drugs and meet Akwuna because he can't settle down to marry, after all the girls he comingle with are Harlots and Runs girls whose only Ideas are styles of Sex and never how to build life or raise family. 

So continue populating your Banks, also Bankers will be studying how to steal your money and some go extra miles to take your mind away from how they manage your account, either through great accounting manipulation or diabolical mechanism.

You have a House in the Village that worth 100 Million, but that family living down your road are still living in thatch house that leak water, and at night you think you will sleep well?.. Iyasikwo.. 

From Today, those houses will become a night mare to you until you put a permanent smile on that family face.

I have looked at most Sons of extremely Rich men, they are irresponsible men who take pressure squandering fathers wealth, only 2 have I seen in Anambra whose Sons left the business of the Father, make wealth as individuals and when you see them they know how to make money count and they reach out to put smiles on people faces ..

Most others prefer wasting the fathers money on Girls and life that makes them confirm akariogheli..

Madam, your daughter can't cook and you think you are a mother?.. It is your responsibility to teach your daughters how to cook, keep house clean, wash plates, wash clothes and be a Wife material, you may curse me all you want, but just do it in your mind because if angels hears you insulting me, that means you will have the kind of sickness not even your Husband will like to endure with you, because I am LAST BORN MPA NNUKWU and he allows me all privileges, which reminds me that I will add the two Rich Men's son I described above in the Book of Mpa Nnukwu as Ndi ga eje Eluigwe.. Moving on..

Madam you treat your Maid like leper and your children like Princess?.. Listen to the voice of Last Born, those Maid shall be the queen of tomorrow and your daughters the servants or dredge of the society you helped to abuse today .. 

OGA, A boy served you well but you can't bring yourself to settle him, so he can't advance in life, read my Lips, that boy will become a Pillar of tomorrow and that your Children you are amassing the wealth for will become paupers and Efulefu that leads you to Obi mgbawa,this goes to many of you who treat Drivers, House help like trash, God will visit you with Vengeance and you can't do jack against God. 

Don't say back to sender because I speak the mind of Mpa Nnukwu and it is a decree not to be repelled, unless you repent today and started treating them as Human with dignity and only then shall your own blossom.

We blame Government for woes, but as individuals what have we done to help or shall we also wait for the Government to help us raise families with values?.

Good Morning once again, I am Mazi Odera POg JP, Last Born Mpa Nnukwu, Mkpisi Ndi Egede, Special Adviser on Good Governance, Minority Opinion writer na South East and by the grace of God Nwa Chukwu Ku na aka na ONWU agaghi egbu nwu ya...