NDI BU NNA, FADA FADA by Obelenwa Mpa Nnukwu Mazi Odera JP POg. 

Once in a year, the Father's get a silent pontification shrouded as Uka Ndi Nna, we do appreciate but of a high truth, Father's don't care about praises or been celebrated because it cost us more to be celebrated or even for our family to be celebrated, having said that, I will like to say that I am not here to celebrate Father's, nor pour ecomium, rather I am here to deliver unrefined truth or present in Igbo lexicon "Eziokwu Ana kuro mmiri". 

Are you a Father or FADA ?..

 Don't wait for transcribe as one won't be coming, but come with me as we stroll and dissect things as led by Muo Nso. 

Father is one who fathered, who impregnated, who donated the Semen that formed the Baby. 

Father can be one who married a woman, who impregnated a Lady or girl friend, some donated the Semen to Sperm Bank (Mostly Overseas, the headquarters of Iniquity before, as Africans have over taken them in abominable acts), all of them are fathers, even a Boy of Teen can be a Father (Teen is from Thirteen, fourteen, Fifteen, sixteen, seventeen, eighteen, nineteen.. All teens), as long as your Nadike Ogbogu can form Sperm, you can be a Father. 

FADA is one who walks around as DADA, donating money toward any Cleavage that welcomes him, and who show love to mistress than Mrs, in a short term I will say, any Odimma na ama is a FADA. 

What is your relationship with your family?, does your family see you as GO TO GUY? (one who you go to to seek counsel), if you don't have such relationship with your Son's and Daughter's , kindly listen to me, You suck real bad.. 

If you distance self from your Children, they will grow into Allien from Gomorrah because they grew up like Orphan. 

Get close to your Daughter's and be thier Boy friend, so they can confide in you and you advise them and chastise them with Love and they can never feel bad. 

Son's are watching how you rove over them as father and that determines how they treat own family or how they despise family, you have never taken your Boy into confidence, he sees you as Uncle and not a father, but in your mind of minds, you are building him an empire, sorry Dude, what your children need is for you to build them up as a Man, so they can stand on self and bring to fruition that which God deposited in them, if you allow them to be Nwa oseaka, they will finish whatever wealth you bequeathed and still serve as akariogheri, infact they will make sure you won't rest on peace because they will burn your wealth while you groan on your old age. 

Your Son's without your love, care, guidance, relationship will be living a sorry life, and will become abomination as you did not culture them while they grow up. 

How about your relationship with your Wife?, She is a Bush woman I agree and you are Americana but let me tell you, weputa Ego and Bath her up and you will be surprise that GOLD use to be a very Ugly stone, until it is refined, refine her with Ego kirikiri and she will become synosure of all eyes. 

If your wife is carrying Hair do for 3 Months, how do your expect her to smell Nice? Onabu onye atufuro, otuta? (You can't look for what you lost if you didn't loose something) . 

If the last time you bought her cloth, sorry I mean you gave her money to buy Cloth was many moons ago, how do you want her to appear attractive even to you?. 

I mean not the money that can only buy Bend down things from Bend down boutique, but real stuff from real Shop, that is mean for real people. 

Let me advise us, Wife is like First Car, atimes the Radiator will do over heat, obido iko so onu, just pack, open the bonnet pour Coolant, small time she will cool down. 

Another the oil will need to be changed and if you did not change it (Her Wardrobe, she will be emitting smoke, ona akwu anwuru bad bad). 

The Tyre will leak Air And need to be inflated (Her Shoes erigo Alignment and need replacement). 

The Roof will be leaking and need Panel beating (emegide perming, the scalp will be weak.. Buy her Weavon to cover her head and make her presentable). 

Her Kick Starter will start faulting na emezi kikikikiki (Her Love and Sexual life will go down, take her out even if it is on weekend, spend day ALONE, away from home, that way everything will come back with enough Kicking, I am a witness). 

Do you know that.. No woman is better suited than the one you married?.. Ibeteru ya ezigbote ego. 

Don't forget that we should have NDU NDI NNA.. 

A creation that revatalize our lives as fathers, as we always jump out very early in the morning, struggle so hard on the street and when we come back home, we are weak, worried, tired and fazed. 

So throughout the week, we become sapped and need a little recreation activity to rejuvenate us.. 

Father's need to locate a decent play ground that will anchor such need around our dwelling places. So weekend, you go out, play games, walk or jog round, meet others and allow the time to just go, so that your brain shall come back together and carry you afresh, just as we will restart our Phones when it started hanging. 

Every father should engage self with  PING PONG, FOOTBALL, VOLLEY BALL, AEROBICS, WHOT, DRAFT, LUDO, NCHOROKOTO  and the rest, even if it is once a week. 

Don't forget if you pack up, even your dearest wife will mourn you for 3 Months and open a new Chapter you never know is around her and you can't blame her, such is life, same way we abandon our secondary school friends and move into University and leave our University friends and move into life, life is like a phase or comes in Chapters, just know that there is no part 2 of life, make your part 1 to be modest. 

Women, encourage your husband to join such every Saturday as that prolong the life's of Husband, you may wish to be a Widow but until your Husband is dead, you won't know what his loving protects you from .

Once he is dead, you will see that life is not friendly, especially in Africa. 

I am Last Born Mpa Nnukwu, Voice of the Voiceless, Minority Opinion writer in South East, Nwa Chukwu ku na aka na onwu agaghi egbunwu ya, Mkpisi ndi Egede, Dibia Onu Ike adiro agbalu Ekperima afa, Anu Ana agba egbe ona eme Love, Ome ka odimma na Alaigbo and I come in Peace as JP.