MARITAL GIFT 2022 from Last Born Mpa Nnukwu.
Married couples eburu m bia na Obi unu (I come to your place of Santicity with a friendly visit).
Happy Christmas in advance,do not forget that the occasion is not XMAS but Christmas,the XMAS was to remove the feature of Jesus and give it to X which can stand for anything , but coming out from digression,I come to announce to you that your/My Marriage is not Bed of Roses and never expect that your Spouse is an Angel ,even Angels who live in Heaven got messed up by women when they visited the Earth .
Genesis 6 vs 4 KJV "There were giants on the earth in those days; and also after that, when the sons of God came in unto the daughters of men and they bore children to them, the same became mighty men who were of old, men of renown.".
Whatever made the above Angels to start having intercourse with our women and they breed Giants is not for Human to interpret (No Wonder God destroyed the world to erase such abomination) but the hard truth is that Women has a skill that is gentle and deceptive and they are a must to have for reproduction ,which if one did not reproduce you become Ofeke even in Heaven and after life,if you die without marriage,in the afterlife they consign you to outer space where you belong as you don't have the requisite mean to be among Men .
Marriage is different from Friendship,a boy can befriend a girl for 10 Years and wouldn't catch the girl passing out Gas ,she will always be at her best ,same is with Boys when they are around a Lady ,a gentle mien serve as the smokescreen which will not phase out until the marriage is consummated and the real shrouded human comes into play.
Stop looking at the bad side of your spouse,even that marriage you envy has a giant tribulation by the side which is hidden from intruder's by the couple involved. .
Once your marriage is blessed,then Satan will come with his disciples to deal with you ,we make him incompetent by virtue of being what he is not and cant ever be ,as he wasn't Married because he is not special ,he can't live with a Woman.
If Satan was married,she would've destroyed his kingdom long ago ,but let's move on..
Come with me ,God created human and gave us that which even him do not have ,he said "Let us create man in our Image and Likeness" . Genesis 1 vs 26 "Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over the cattle, over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.”
Meaning he used all characteristics of Divinity to create us , then after creation at a later date ,he did something that Angels and Trinity wasn't part of and that's the best side ,he made Adam to sleep and took a Rib out of him and create a She.
That made us Unique,we have a first time experiment ,we live with Bone of our Bone and flesh of our own , so stop complaining or asking God to give you a Wife, because he gave us the answer after creating EVE and she played ADAM like Tennis ,God then said in anger
"He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD." Proverbs 18 vs 22 (Favor to live with what you found and you won't blame Him or Angels ).
He wants you to find a wife ,so you won't repeat what ADAM threw at him on Genesis 3vs 12 "Then the man said, “The woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I ate.”
When Adam threw that response to God,it was like a Javelin thrown through a heart which was why Genesis 6 vs 6 said "The LORD regretted that he had made human beings on the earth, and his heart was deeply troubled."
Listen to me Woman and Man ,there is no Wall erected in Africa that has no Lizard or Wall Gecko, same as marriage ,there is no marriage without ups and down ,same way there is no Success without trials ,you can't have a happy marital life without the hiccups.
Africans are better we make marriage work , Caucasians shy away ,taking divorce as alternative and rendering many children insolvent in life .
If you can't stay married,don't even get into it in the first place ,there is no Roses in marriage unless you bring the Rose,lay it and change it after it wither.
You can't climb an Iroko tree with your hands in your Pocket,same with marriage,you can't have it without combined trials.
You can't Pass any Class without examination ,even when you use EXPO but there must be EXAM.
As a Lady you want a ready made man , it's your Choice but what are you taking into the union ? Do you think the Man is marrying you because you have a pointed breast and can give Sex like a dog?,he can get that on Pay as you go basis.
What he want is a life manager and not damager, somebody who will be his happiness as when a man goes out in the morning ,he went into Business or work Mine field (So much aggression) ,he expect to come back home not to go to Hell ,if you make the house Hell for him,he will go out in search for the elusive peace and he will find one or continue searching.
Stop trying to give man a Good SEX , just give him a good peace,a good home, place he will come back to and feel protected,not a place his mind will skip once he open door and the next will be idiotic demands from the wife.
If a Man have grown and sensible friends who will advise him to set her on path of self production ,once a wife start giving him trouble.
Don't forget that most of the troubles are financially induced,but if he should open up a business for the Wife or get her a job, Either she get wise after knowing what it takes to make Money ,then she will understand that what she think she endures in marriage is just part one of what she will be eating in making money and she won't say a thing while pursuing the money , but once a man tries providing all her needs ,she won't have respect for the money or the giver ..just withdraw all the money and let hell fall ... that's the only way to reset her brain and if that doesn't do the Job ,Then start treating the marriage like a bad business which should be handled like a leech perching on the Scotrum which must be handled with delicate void ,if you hit it in anger,you break the Omerta ,if you allow it to dwell ,it will suck you to death.
Newly married,do not forget that whatever you started from the first day of your marriage becomes the Norm,so if you know what you want in your marriage,start it from day one,if it will bring War,better fight it at that initial stage and do not relent until you achieve acceptable bounds.
Woman your friends are advising you not to take a shit from a Man,some will even take you to Spiritualists to prepare spiritual cage ,just know that he has relations including Girls like you who know more than Spiritualist and once they set out destroying your hold on him ,just know that your old age shall be in a brothel as even your mother won't tolerate you in her matrimonial home which you called your father's house ,and your brother will be married and the wife won't welcome you to his house or the father's house which he inherited.
When your friends start telling you how they won't take any shit from a Man, Just disappear from them as they are Destiny killers, they are same people who won't take any shit from lecturers and have to carry over more than once and later have to pay in kind or cash ,but you who they confused will end up being devastated.
Man ,your wife is not Angel and listen to Last Born Mpa Nnukwu,God is not married because he want to have sanity,no one questions his OMNI status, but had he married.. you know the answer to that.
Jesus got to the World approve marriage age for a Boy which is 33 and he died before anybody can force him into marriage and somebody will kill him not on the Cross.
Angels don't marry ,so they can stay focussed and don't have to be late carrying out assignment because the wife won't allow him to go out when he is summoned ,as the wife will suggest he Beat God to become God and She wife of God.
Satan with all his witty ways is not married, If he did, we are sure his ministry would be different ,infact the woman would've changed his ministry like she did that of ADAM and place a wedge between him and God.
You are married Because you are unique, and to handle marriage is very simple.. come with me .. first stage approach it like..
Tenant living with a Landlord ,there will be provocation but you humbly out leave the situation with Ndidi Maka ejiro iwe Aru uno (You can't build a house with Wishes just be patient).
If you can outlast University flaws you can beat marriage and her intricacies.
If you can beat the bullying of your Boss in the office and did not run away from the hustling and bustling of everyday dealing with life ,what then is ordinary marriage you can't overcome.
If we as NDIGBO can over come the Crystal ism mixed with schism marshaled against us in this Nation ,there is nothing in marriage each of Us can't overcome.
Henceforth stop seeing problems in marriage,start being solutions.
When you enter a very dense,dark tunnel ,you don't turn round,you grop in darkness and continue moving because you believe there is light at the end of the Tunnel.
If your Car/House develope fault,you don't throw it away , rather you fix it ,just learn how to fix your marriage and not throwing it away , Because the next one still have it flaws.
If your Child is Sick,you don't throw him or her away ,you proffer treatment and solution,so if your marriage is sick,do the needful.
If you can grow from Teenager to Adult,so will your marriage grow from Primary to secondary then to tertiary and you have to nature same.
You buy Ugu ,Yam,Corn even if you can't farm ,the process is provocating..you till ground, plant it ,water it ,then bury Stick that you will loop the Ugu or Yam for it to grow,if you don't guide it ,it will be stunted on the ground because it is not rising with guide..same with marriage you need to work on it , guide it,aide it and never allow it to stay on the ground and become stunted.
Stop asking God to help you ,you can do it by caring about it like Ugu tendon,you can do it ,God can only give you the grace.
If you want to discuss more DM me on Facebook Penofthe godz and we can discuss the pros and the cons.
I am Mazi Odera POg JP, Pen of the gods, Last Born Mpa Nnukwu and I say ...jisi Ike asula ngongo,ma uzogi gba ochichi...Abu 215
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