This Morning,I am not here to preach peace or what you will like ,but I am here to tell you what will be great for you and your soul..

Both Men and Women will advise you ,if your marriage is Toxic walk away ..

Oya clap for self with one hand ..come with me ..

If your Father is Toxic did you walk away or did your own mum walk away ,if she did Walked away ,did you enjoy such life ?

You guys are seeing marriage as Hook up thing ,if you pay me ,we sleep or if you come do me ,I pay ,if you say you don't want to do you leave ,which is Business .

Marriage is a bigger cross ,do you think those who started the allegiance of - FOR BETTER FOR WORSE are dumb ?.

Marriage is not Bed of Roses, only you can plant the Rose ,water it ,trim it,nurture it and it can scented the house .

Marriage is just a house until both of you makes it a home.

Ndi Advisers will say walk away if it is Toxic,why did you walk into it if it was a Toxic in the first instance?.

There are things you are not doing right and it provoked your spouse to bring out the demon in him or her as well ,then Ohu na Ogodo dowaru nje .

You can divorce freely if you don't have children,once you have children the consequence of staying apart can only be sighted in your kids ,it will make them grew up and be hostile to opposite sex Because the mentality of incompatibly has grown in the life as a Child,then you think you are protecting your already wretched life ?

Most screw up in marriage is not what you notice but what friends , neighbors told you they noticed,you should know that Ono na Ndo Afu Egbe did ime started back in the days ,they will sit at the shadow of trees and observe Pregnant kite ,then what can he or she do about such ?.

She or he can't hunt the kite down or provide conducive environment,once this type of person observe the crack he or she created,they will zoom off to another family,but if you want to hurt that devil, warn him or her to bug off your family, because what you don't know won't hurt you .

If you don't stop making your Home a Private place , neighbors will make it a public Yard .

Stop seeking advise from Social Media, Majority of those you meet here and deranged.

Such things you heard that the teller will say "I can't take this or that " is her or his personal problem,you can take what he can't or she can't because you are more matured , repair it and turn same to advantage.

Read my lips,there is no walled City without Walk Gecko making it a place of scalding.

Once you started nursing a divorce idea ,you have started poisoning your home and making it Toxic, and once you Divorced,you have killed the future of your kids and murdered yours as well .

If you can't pray , can't tolerate, can't differentiate between friendship which is trial and ERRORS with marriage which is like a UNIVERSITY,no matter now bad the school is , you strive to pass .

If you are working,no matter how terrible your Boss is , you still put in your best ,why not try it at home or are you okay nma na Ezi ?

Like having a sick Child ,no matter how sickly you still nurse him or her hoping for good health back .

You can't get a perfect marriage,you make yours perfect.

Before I go never forget that after Divorce, not only will it affect the kids ..but a Man can marry the next day and life move on in his mind ,but you as a lady will suffer the consequences,even your Mother will be grilling you if you move back home to your parents house ,she will be using inhumane words to taunt you at any slight provocation.

Your sisters will be looking down on you .

The community will be seeing you as wayward unless you come from such absurd community where waywardness is part of life .

If you are married,then you have to learn how to pray ,how to be a Model Mother, model Father and envisage how to retire with same spouse at old age ,if this doesn't cross your mind ,then the alternative will cross it .

If they advise you to walk away if it doesn't walk ,how about if the second and third one did not work as well,you walk away also , right?.

When you get old ,you will see the results of your Nsokwu.

You must plant, water, nurture before you harvest and having said the Above,I say good Morning and welcome to another dawn in peace.

I remain Mazi Odera POg JP and I am your brother even if you don't accept,but it has come to stay.