Adumbration on CITY BOYS .. Comparing and contrasting the Past and present, written by Mkpisi.

Originally, there's one Igbo Chap that started the overture with Tinubu,he gave Tinubu strong support even when Buhari and others never wanted the man for anything. When no one can Touch him with a ten feet pole na Alaigbo.

He took Seyi the Son of TINUBU round the South East with stealth protection and acting as guarantor to the father ,they went to many places in peace and safety that rang bell.

Just after the election,I was thinking that the Smileless Dude known as Uzuegbuna Okagbue will be in Echelon of the Government,but whosai..

Ministerial positions , Iyasikwo.

Kedu Maka Ambassadorial posting ,they even prefer to offer that garbage called Reno Mockery a mission.

What burst my Brian is oginizi melu ? Was he treated with treatment meted to Ndigbo or he refused appointment or they refused to appoint him ?
Ka fa arago ya akpago ya ,kwapu ya na uzó?

Ndi City Clowns,if Uzu can be treated with Such disdain despite all he put into Tinubu campaign including Bill boards and TV Commercials ,just jua onwegi,why is he not in the City boys?.

Ónwu gbúrú Alhaji nweta unu bu Almajari, osesasia ûnû.

Happy Easter Monday as I head to Umuawulu for Anu Nchi with Nkwuenu Awgbu .

Mazi Odera POg JP, Mkpisi Ndi Egede wondering and Working.

 In 1967 when they raided Alaigbo after the Brutish charged them to invade and annihilate us ,though they tried but met a determined Village Boys who defended our soil with cudgels and creativity that made America and Europe to recognize the looming emergence of Black Super Power,they call for cease fire.

While it goes on the rest of the nation refuses to understand that what goes around comes around.

Then recently they turned Igbo land to grave Yard by unleashing the puppets and product of leaking condoms who turned our land to kidnapping Den ,they turned our land to Blood gulping place ,the world smiled and celebrated.

Now ,both the North and middle belt are testing the animosity of those who they partnered with .

Until Nigeria understand that what failed one tribe will crush others .

We have City Boys and they are sharing Lice,don't worry they are packing your own agent of destruction which may be City Men ,but take it from me ,this Acidic rain shall fall on all roofs .. Mkpisi is the Job 

 Miss Joy Ezeugwu and Uwani Enugwu health Siege,the devil's Finisher.. written by Mkpisi Ndi Egede.

ATTN ; 

Dr Peter Ndubuisi Mba ,Enugwu State Governor.

Compliments filled with Easter Concern,I come as Onye Igbo who understands the liturgy of Ónúrú Ube Nwanne agbana ósó, we all remember the metaphoric saying which provides anuta akórú Eze odika Eze agworu anumanu (When right information are supplied to the throne ,it seems the King has Decanter of knowledge).

Sir, There's this Video featuring Miss Joy Ezeugwu a student of Ezzy international nursing school Enugwu State ,who got drafted to Uwani health center for her clinicals with other colleagues, they aired a Video which in a saner clan will give them Full scholarship, especially where progressives are appreciated ,but it turned out the Uwani health center swing the Gauntlet at their Life for the temerity of the girls showing the Health Center is nothing but Shanty, obsolete and dwelling in dark age. As in asking them onye si ûnû Kwue ?

They ran an expose which provides Uwani Health Center as painted Sepulchre, imagine window decoration of a haunted horror house. Igbo saying has a word for it and I says "an elder can never stay at home while a goat give birth tethered".

English said "if you see something,then say something" but this Girl's saw Evil and they spoke,then atódo fa Aka na akpiri ka atogbue.

That place looked like concentration Camp during the GENOCIDAL outrage of 1967 to 1970 and shouldn't be so in a modern society like Enugwu the Capital of Alaigbo, especially from a Governor who is adding substances to the annals of the State.

The Nurses were posted to State owned hospital for clinicals , to Uwani health center and at resumption for Night Duties they discovered the Hospital doesn't have light, sorry , Uwani health center were disconnected completely from NEPA Owing to uncleared debt for Years, something the Government should look into, to unveil the management that allowed such to happen and to unearth how the Debt accumulated that long ,no Genset or Solar were serving, and the Students complained that it's not friendly nor healthy ,and safety must be paramount , especially with Pregnant Women patronizing the place ,if there's call to childbirth the darkness may provide eventuality, No oxygen in the Center and they were worried about accident Victims that may need Oxygen to survive ,it will be a disaster. They complained and the management brought noose to suffocate them.

They are worried if there's Night Surgeries , definitely they won't use Naked Candles to illuminate the place while Surgeons run through patients with blades ,they also complained of Reptiles that may Luck in the Dark as darkness gives them maximum protection ,imagine one goes for headache prescription and end up with Venomous bite ,most Victims may die of Snake bite than ailments that send them to health center.

Such Young Vibrant ladies doesn't share abode with reptiles that luck in the dark,they can't sacrifice themselves on alter of working night duties in a very Dark Coven. 

If they became Victims what would they tell God ? Will they say ,we kept quiet because of tyrannical management or Nursing school insensitivity?.

The expose should give them applause and issue them scholarships and very good Jobs loaded with Kudos ,but the school and Hospital decided to give them indefinite suspension maybe they love the decadence the Health Center represents .

Since the management of the health center love the obsolete environment,since they felt nobody can talk to them ,then  you the Governor hold the 4 Aces that can trounce them , lay Justice on the table,so they will know that you are not part of the Conclave of iniquity.

Joy and friends speak up about present health hazard to attract the attention of the management and Government. Where they should be raised with praises, Instead  they were faulted for doing the right thing that serve both human and spirit with righteousness.

Such act from the school and the health center are barbaric, inhuman and treacherous. 

The School should be  sanctioned as they are not supposed to be in igboland and working against Umuigbo who are our Future ,then the health center need to change the management and bring medical managers with human mind and conscience to accept advise,that way there will be godly standards within our health and living.

The Girls are not Politicians nor do they ask to be employed as Politicians,they simply asked for enabled health guaranteed environment,not for remuneration or solid apartment  or good Student nest ,they simply ask for passable place of health,so they can learn as Nurses in progress and what Enugu state Government have for them is POLITICAL animosity? Mbanu Sir.

Does it mean nobody shows your Government flaws on the state? We all know there's always Devil's in the details,so the need for us to always read the minutes of the last meeting.

I know in ANAMBRA State we have Government that terminates appointment if any leader ask for understandable and workable situation. Enugwu shouldn't ape that standard.

In ANAMBRA we have secretariat without NEPA or any sought of lighting because they owe large sum to Nepa ,and the Government cared less about workers welfare as long as the Government play Content before camera where they will make workers to appear as the villains,but we don't expect ENUGU state to compete with Anambra on such March to absurdity. 

I can't add the story of having AKA ODO as ANAMBRA State HISBA (Police).

Those Girls are the millennium Voices,they saw things and they spoke out which should be applauded and not frown at .

If this girls are not rewarded but punished,it simply send a bad message to younger or say our Gen-z as they will zip up on saying the right thing while it matters,then they continue to move farther into  Path of perdition.

I am Mazi Odera POg JP, Mkpisi Ndi Egede, Minority opinion writer na mpaghara anyi, Dibia ónu ike adighi agbalu Ekperima afa, Obele Nwa Chukwu ku na Aka na ónwu agaghi egbunwu ya, Paracetamol Ndi Politics, Political analyst with feathers, Media Consultant with Onyokometer, Ógba Ntutukó ma obido Igba afa, Mkpisi Ndi Egede na ede with precision.

Call me APGA Alaigbo and we are friends,call me Pen of the gods and I will present you to the gods as One of the greater Order.

 The Executive Governor Anambra State.

Dear Sir ,

 COMPLAINT OF ABUSE OF OFFICE AND ACTIONS THREATENING THE PEACE AND UNITY OF UMUERI COMMUNITY BY CHIEF JOHNY METCHIE(PRESIDENT GENERAL), BARR. EUGENE AGHAEBE(CHAIRMAN ELECTORAL COMMITTEE) AND HON. IFEANYI CHINWEZE(MAYOR ANAMBRA EAST L.G.A.).

We, the members of Ikenga Umueri Unity Forum (IUUF), heartily felicitate with you on your swearing in for second term in office. We also thank you for appointing one of our brothers Dr. Egbune Okechi as the Deputy Chief of Staff.It is only the Almighty God that will reward you enough for the magnitude of love you have been showing the people of Umueri and the unprecedented development that we are witnessing under your stewardship in Anambra State.

As the umbrella body of elites of Ikenga Umueri (One of the four quarters that made up the Umueri Community), we humbly call your attention to the peace threatening actions of Hon. Ifeanyi Chinweze (Mayor Anambra East), President General, Umueri General Assembly (Chief Johny Metchie), and Chief Eugene Aghaebe (Electoral Committee Chairman).

 

PREAMBLE: Umueri is made up of 4 administrative Quarters, namely; Ezi, Ikenga,Ivite and Otuocha. Hence, our elective positions are divided amongst these 4 quarters. 

Positions given to these quarters are usually thrown open for all the residents of these quarters to contest , and occupy if voted in. A typical example is the present representatives of the Otuocha quarter in the outgoing U.G.A. government. They are originally from Ivite quarter,but were allowed to represent Otuocha Quarter because they reside there.This approach has been the tradition in Otuocha for many years, and we have been living peacefully like that.

No one from other quarters has ever protested or petitioned anywhere against this practice before now,till it is the turn of Ikenga Umueri to produce the PG in the forthcoming election.

THE CRUX OF THE MATTER: The tenure of the present Umueri General Assembly leadership will end on the 18th of April 2026. In compliance with the Umueri constitution on the change of leadership, the President General Chief Johny Metchie inaugurated an electoral committee headed by Chief Eugene Aghaebe in January 2026.

 Without delay,Chief Aghaebe and his team rolled out their Time table for the election with the 21th of March as the election Day.

These processes were religiously followed till the 17th of March(3 days to the election) when our PG through a letter addressed to the Electoral Committee postponed the election for 3 months, beyond the tenure of his office (Copy of the letter marked Annexure A).

That disruptive Postponement of election ignited wide condemnation from most stakeholders in Umueri, including Ikenga Quarter because it is our turn to produce the next President General. We communicated the President General via a letter dated 15th of March 2026(Copy marked Annexure B) condemning the abrupt disruption of the election. Till today,he has not responded to our letter.

Within this period of suspense, Hon. Ifeanyi Chinweze (Mayor Anambra East L.G.A.) as an interested party in the election was busy holding clandestine meetings with some impostors in his office with the intention of altering the existing zoning formular against Ikenga Quarter who are the bonafide owners of Otuocha Umueri.

Finally,on the 28th day of March 2026,a letter emanated from the office of the Mayor Anambra East (Copy marked Annexure C), altering the entire sharing formular and introducing a toxic clause capable of creating  disharmony and discord in Umueri.

Sequel to the Mayor's letter, the Electoral Committee chairman, Chief Eugene Aghaebe issued his own election notice on the 29th day of March 2026(Copy marked Annexure D) without including Ikenga and Otuocha Quarters in his publication. As it stands now, Leaders and Contestants from Ikenga and Otuocha Quarters have no idea of what is left for them to contest or even the fate of their brothers who bought forms and passed through the rigorous screening process.

As peace loving citizens of Umueri that have staked so much for the unity and progress of Umueri,we therefore plead with you sir, to use your good offices to call these trio to order,as their actions are capable of breaching the peace that the people of Umueri are enjoying today.

Our Prayers :

1, That the President General should rescind his communication that reallocated positions shared amongst the 4 Quarters to its original owners as it was in the beginning of the exercise.

2, That the imposition letter from the Mayor's office be discarded and ignored because it was written without consulting the appropriate leaders and in bad fate.

3, That the micro zoning of offices in Otuocha Quarter should be stopped forthwith,as it is unconstitutional and insults the sensibilities of Ikenga Umueri people, the exclusive owners of Otuocha.

4, That the Electoral Committee should be instructed to continue with the election as earlier planned before the disruptive letter from the PG, Chief Johny Metchie.

Conclusion: The people of Ikenga Umueri as  represented by Ikenga Umueri Unity Forum (IUUF) stands for the prevalence of justice, equity and fairness in the affairs of Umueri . As an impartial father that you have proved to be,let the excesses of these respected sons of Umueri be checked to avoid plunging Umueri into an unwarranted crisis.

Please, accept the assurances of our highest regards.

Signed:

As Easter is at hand ,hear me baby ókú..

If a man dates you for 3 years and marry another person instead ,come with me and hear ugheli Danda

1) Either you are not marriage material and he tried to cure you ,but you are like "You can't control me,you can't tell me what to do ,I love my life the way I want it " so he abandon you because he wants to have a happy home.

2) Your Home training refused to work with you and ighogo afia,so he ran for his sanity unto a safer hand.

3) You wanted to control his life thinking you are acting Feminist,no man wants to enter into slavery. And you may love to squander money without skill of making even Kobo,you are all round liability.

Just check your life and how you behave toward Men,then you will understand the reason you can't be a Wife..plus ..

I love you language is same thing like saying hello when you pick up phone, it's rubrics and nothing more,get that into your Skull.

Marriage is time a man research the wife ,maybe you have very toxic root ,maybe your mother is a terrible woman and no man wants a liability as in law .

Don't forget that a man's family gets involve in his marriage research to avoid marriage that crashes.
Every marriage that was well researched can never crash , but that one you dabble into because you have erection and the lady has big nyash will always crash in few years.

Maybe your Home town grow majority of women who doesn't stay in marriage and the man is not ready for divorce which has become tradition of your town.

Stop saying after he dated me for years ,it should be after he managed me for Years and still found me wanting. It's not easy to leave who you know and take a plunge into unknown.

I am Dibia ónu ike, Mkpisi Ndi Egede and I come with Peace loaded with Piss .

I don't write to make anybody happy,I am simply a Truth decanter and many people hate truth but Ógbasadim at all.

Happy Easter from  Mazi Odera POg JP and may his resurrection help and resurrect your brain 🧠.

 EBUKA ONUNKWO WANTED BY IDEMILLI DEITY, written by Mkpisi Ndi Egede.

Just this afternoon when I came out from the Conclave of THE PEN ,I heard the news that made my heart to Summersault in Joy .

Ihembosi Born,bread and buttered Chief Ebuka Onunkwo,who also schooled at Ihembosi Boys Secondary school with Distinction results and have been giving scholarships to Umuazi Ihembosi for over 10 years without broadcast ,ma primary , ma secondary school ,also known as Ugwumba Ihembosi and Eze Ndigbo na Benin Republic did something that shamed even Ndi Idemilli Noise makers .

Chief Ebuka Onunkwo heard that one of Ada ide ,who is APGA Chieftain from the days of Obiano , Hon Amaka Obi,not Iyom Amaka Obi the Mayor,has a troubling situation as the immediate younger sister called Chiamaka Obi will undergo Hip Surgery and the elder Sister needs gbata gbata ,when Ndi Idemilli failed her ,when APGA threw her under the Bus ,when the hope was Hopeless, that was when Ugwumba Ihembosi rose up and shoulder the hefty amount all by himself,not as if he was petitioned for help but because of his Benevolent vibes , because of ónuru ube Nwanne agbana ósó ,he stepped up to the plate and did the needful.

I was confused on the character of that Gap toothed young Man ,who despite the fact na emelu ya APGA mgbajiaka in his last outing,where his winning was taking away with pure prejudice ,but after that he rewarded all his followers with Huge reward instead to be mourning the extortion from APGA.

So I have been commissioned by Idemilli Deity to use one Powerful Goat and pay a thank you visit to Chief Onunkwo for cleaning the tears from face of Ada ide.

May His well never run dry ,may his days be long and rewarded.

I am Mazi Odera POg JP, Mkpisi Ndi Egede searching for a good Mkpi that can be used for the Thank you visit..then I will look for those that know him and his House to avoid ikpóchidom uzó na gate .

 A VIEW AT THE 25 PAGES OF HOMELAND SECURITY LAWS ,AS WRITTEN BY ANAMBARA HOUSE OF ASSEMBLY, and pulling down of HOTEL Y JUNCTION  ? Written by Mazi Odera POg JP.

Let's look at Functions of Agunechemba as provided by the SECURITY LAWS of the State as written by HOA and signed into law by the Governor.

It's necessary after Agunechemba pulled down Hotel AIRTIGHT which I will be calling HOTEL Y JUNCTION,and they used laws as provided by ANAMBRA Legislators,let's go to statistics -

"The functions of  Agunechemba  shall be to assist the Nigeria Police and any other security agency to:

  (a) prevent and detect crimes; 

(b) make available relevant information on criminals; 

(c) take necessary measures to ensure that criminals do not operate in any part of the State; 

(d) preserve law and order; 

(e) protect lives and properties; 

(f) arrest criminals and hand them over to police for investigation; and 

(g) give further assistance to the police where required in the production of witnesses.

(Hold the word ASSIST the Police and other security Agencies,not reverse,they assist not to lead )

Powers of 5. The Agunechemba shall have powers to:

Agunechemba

 arrest and handover to the police, any person who commits crime; 

 patrol the streets or villages at any time of the day; 

 maintain security barricades in appropriate places; 

 question and handover to the police any person of questionable character or of suspicious movement; 

 enter and search any compound into which a questionable person runs while being pursued ; and 

form special forces or squads for the purpose of tackling  kidnapping, banditry, consumption of illicit drugs, cultism, robbery and any other violent ".

Mazi Odera POg JP reacts: there's no place this laws empowered Agunechemba to search and destroy properties of EVEN a criminal,unless I am short sighted which I am not.

It said assist the Police ..it also said in event they caught a criminal,they should hand same over to police for prosecution,I didn't see where the law said AGUNECHEMBA shall bulldoze houses or property used for crimes ,it didn't said they will Usurp the functions of the court , so where did they get the powers used in pulling down Y JUNCTION HOTEL?.

If they Usurp the functions of the Court and Deprive the Police the requisite investigation and powers to charge the criminals to court and allow Lawyers to challenge the arrest the crime , also going against the laws as written by Legislators of the State ,then the law will rise and prosecute the prosecutors.

Every crimes has to be proven in court of competent jurisdiction.

This following definition of AGUNECHEMBA Supervisory committee DUTIES exonerates the House of assembly from the flaws of Pulling down of Y JUNCTION HOTEL,they defined the roles of the outfit as followed ..

"The functions of the Anambra State Security Supervisory Committee shall be to:

 ensure that the Units of Agunechemba and their 

members are duly registered in accordance with this law; 

 monitor the activities of the different units of 

Agunechemba in the communities and local governments to ensure that  they operate effectively and in accordance with this law; 

advise the Governor on the programme and 

activities of  Agunechemba ; 

effect the provision of necessary  materials "

So where did Agunechemba derive the powers of the Prosecutor,the Jury,the judge and the executioner?

I developed goose pimples while reading  number 14  ..it said  at number ..

4) The proprietor or operator of any hotel, commercial guest house, inn, lodge, motel, shortlet apartment or other commercial dwelling place by whatever name called, or  hostel shall as from the commencement of this law, install in such facility, a surveillance camera to record the checking in of guests and or the activities taking place within the premises and surroundings and shall as prescribed by the State or Local Government, submit to the appropriate authority the data recorded by the camera. ".

It said Hotel or short rest or any of those shall have CCTV to monitor coming and going and around the Place ,now that HOTEL Y JUNCTION was pulled down and in rubbles ,did they obtain the CCTV footages to ascertain that known criminals are not using the place or that it wasn't Den of evil or it's just a brothel hangout?.

I know Police would've investigated the Hotel if the case was handed over to them ,so the question remains ,why such a hasty demolition?.

The law even said any confirmed property used for heinous crime shall be forfeited to state government,the Government shall confiscate and not destroy such,so why did Udogachi destroyed this HOTEL Y JUNCTION?

Where did Agunechemba grab the powers of executor of Judiciary jobs ?.

How did they conclude that the Hotel was actually guilty when the management wasn't even tried in court nor investigated by Police department?.

Well ,if the Hotel owner seeks redress in Court,I know the rebuilding of his Hotel is assured ,re equipping of the Hotel destroyed in a haste shall be heaped on the Government and the Government knows how to get her money from Udogachi outfit.

If this case did not bring compensation to the owner of the Y junction,just know Anambara is going into Sharia episode and it won't be funny.

This HOMELAND SECURITY LAWS Which I read did not empower rascality or Jaundice appropriation.

It narrates the tiny lines allowed for operatives of Udogachi,they arrest and handover to Police.

The Government should rise up and start rebuilding the Hotel destroyed in error ,we are not in Banana Republic.

 Reacting to UMUOJI Political Brick Bat targeting Hon Uche Okonkwo,written by Mazi Odera POg JP.

I read one clarification document penned by Chief Joseph Okonkwo  - Ebube Adiji ,to UMUOJI Igwurube Okodu,where he cleared air on the Political mudslinging designed to taint Honorable Harris Uche Okonkwo,the Member representing Idemilli at the Green Chambers,he confessed and I provide -

"It is with pains and sadness that I watched this video and listened to related voice messages concerning the damaged food products and other items. It beats my imagination that for unknown reasons, these items were left this way. 

It was during Christmas period when on personal interaction with Hon. Haris Okonkwo that he promised to give me some items to augment my christmas gesture to the less privileged. I thanked him and instead of what will cover about five (5) persons, I pleaded with him to increase it as it was my desire to extend it to one person per village in Umuoji. In his respect for me, he agreed! .,.....

 I went with my car to Ojoto to bring the items. In addition to 23 cartons of spagetti, he added salt, tomato paste and a few other items all as gesture to me. This happened on 2nd January, 2026. When we returned, the President General directed Mr. Chuka Igwilo to distribute the items, having compiled the names of the beneficiaries and their contact numbers from each village."

Let me cut to the chase , it's established that Hon Uche extended his Benevolence to Ndi UMUOJI and the receiver confirmed receiving same ,but local Politics waded in-between to create stories that touches the heart . I wonder why we play POLITICS with things that has to do with our health and we forgot that one who throw stone into crowded village market,will not know if the pebble will land on his Siblings or parents skull.

If you see a fowl scattering excreate with his leg,Chuba ya Maka imaró onye ga ata ókpa ya.

Hon Uche gave with benevolent heart and Ebube Adiji delivered it to the place it should be shared ,he would've shared it by self , but I think he deferred to the PG ,so it will be attributed to PG as his attraction.

That it wasn't shared as planned is local Politics of hired Political orchestration after all election will be coming and the Giver will seek re-election which some has interest as well,so they planned on throwing mud mixed with tantrums.

The gift Maybe badly stored despite the warnings scribed on eatables about storage,where they warn that you must store at good temperature,but any person with prejudice or say Political Jaundice mind would store same at unhealthy place ,so it can be used as political cheap propaganda.

You have the right not to like Hon Uche Okonkwo or his Politics or his lineage, but to beat him Politically ,you should beat him the right way ,we are idennites and we play safe,we beat somebody clean, clear and square.

What I expect Ndi UMUOJI to do is to apologize to Hon Uche for wasting that precious gift or kwanu buy another set and share as it was originally designed.

As for election mudslinging,I won't say pim on it ,but what you must take to the bank is ,whatever lies spewed against anybody ,I will simply come with my Vacuum cleaner,if you want to play Politics ,play it the idennites way ,where we play Politics with brotherly mind ,with Egwu na amu and without rancour after all 4 Years abûró eternity.

I am Mkpisi Ndi Egede, Minority opinion writer na mpaghara anyi, Dibia ónu ike adighi agbalu Ekperima afa ,Obele Nwa Chukwu ku na Aka na ónwu agaghi egbunwu ya.

I come in peace with Spirit of Nwanne.

    

 As Anambara State Governor skipped to London to broker City Boys fund raiser,sorry I mean TOWN HALL melting with City Boys ,the question remains..

Did he found the Deputy Governor competent enough to transmit powers to him or he thinks him incompetent not to have power which the Constitution bestowed on him ?

You, what do you think, is the Deputy Governor Competent or incompetent to handle the office as designed by the constitution?.

Or is the Denominational bias playing strangulation politics in our state ?

Stay tuned .. Mkpisi Ndi Egede.

 Sunday SERMON to Umu Nwanyi Igbo from Dibia ónu ike.

I can't tolerate this shit in my home,I don't want your (Husband families) coming to my house without my permission.. as agbakija Nwanyi ókwaya?

My Advise,your Husband is a weakling for you to start saying that ,listen , it's his House and not yours ,you don't decide what he does to his family and friends. It's him that can restrain your family if , because he Married you and not your family, but Men will keep quiet and women will be fanning the embers. Don't start creating boundaries,it will put you in a quandary.

Woman will say ,if my Husband cheat ,I will cheat back ..

My Advise,if your Husband is not a super weakling,not only you will be ex wife, but you go back home without grace.

If you say you caught your Husband cheating Outside and he now call you and say "I have tried to hide that relationship but now you find out ,kindly move to visitors room as she will be coming to take over the room as my second wife" what will you do ?

You rant,you rave and you pack out because you don't want to be numbered right? But you will start gracing beds of other married Men in a Quickie inside Hotel ,once you are not married Men will enumerate you as Hook-up mommy, while so doing,you will be avoiding wives who are original owners of the preek you are stealing. 

So who wins ?

If you want to get married ,don't go about it with sarcasm,it doesn't pay. There's nothing like equality in marriage,the Man is the head respect him and he install you as Mega Head ,but drag position with him and you be thrown into the curves,forget social Media in-laws who won't use you to replace their mother or brothers wife,if you crash out of marriage ,the best of they hail you as Queen not attached to a king and that's all.

Woman can say ,I will go wherever I want ,in my father's house ,nobody restraints me ..

Advise ; if you truly want unrestricted life style,go back to your father's house ,your Husband you are competing with us not your Father, because he can't sleep with you without your raising eye brows but your father is morally, culturally, spiritually forbid to even see your Nakedness as adult but your husband is over qualified and with mandate to do it.

He is not your father even though some of you calls them Daddy and he calls you mummy,a name that sounds absurd...Your Husband can never be your Daddy or your wife your mummy,both of you are spouses,treat each other with respect, kedu reason why you are calling each other ancient name , thinking it's romantic ? 

You can go back to your father's house to continue enjoying freedom for unmarried,but in a man's house ,he has his own rules that is not same with your Father, respect that . His blood families are not visitors to his house , put that in your skull.

Marriage is advance step up in life, it's never for Girls who refused to stay married,not for boys whose parents forced into marriage,while they are not ready and it forces them to continue as night crawler,once you see such, just know they are mistake of failed parents,some product of Single parenting.

If a man is married, there's restrictions that will make you a good Husband and great Father.

If you think nobody can tell you what to do in marriage,how do you think you can tell your husband what to do in same marriage? Does it not show you have mental issues?

Your psychedelic life ends when you wants to become a mother ,which is why they said BE RESPONSIBLE ..wife must be responsible to the Husband and the Children, it's your responsibility that gives you a happy and good home ,stop competing with your Husband who is more Stewpid and who rave more on the Street.

I am UnReverend and UnPastored but Ógbantutukó ma mbido

 Igba afa, Mkpisi Ndi Egede.