I read something this morning about a Man who married a Girl but the girl/family Hide that she had a Kid out of wedlock,the man after 4 years found out and was devastated...

My Verdict,the Man is a Foundational Ikwurigba,he deserve same ,come with me as we are in Easter mode ..

In Igbo land ,in actual Igbo Spirit,if you want to marry,ije jua ase ..you can't Jua ase from the Lady because she won't tell you her flaws,same way you can't ask a product seller if the product have defect and the person won't lie ,it is his work to promote and your work to argue,moving on..

You ask neighbors and friend's about the family of the Lady,her life and that of the Mother and it is not even your Job to jua Ase , Member of your family will do the job ,you can even send 3 different people not at once ,so when they gather the information,you know which one is Umunnadi and the real ones ,that your wife had a Kid simply showed she is fruitful,if you marry her be rest assured that she is a PRODUCER and if it didn't happen immediately,you as a Man should go and treat self or your Umunna entered into your Balls just to disinherit you ,but if you make marriage investigation,that will be First thing they will tell you ,they will even tell you who made her pregnant even if the parents do not know , but neighbors know .

Same with Women,if a Man propose to you ,you tell him to wait,let you make consultation..you love him but did you know his parents? .

Do you know if any married Lady there is barren from point or dowry Because the family may have a pact with EKWENSU over the years ?.

Do you know if his family members love to use the wife to make sacrifice?

Do you know if the Man have used other wives before proposing to you to be the next Victim?

Unless we stop this theatrics of proposing at open places just to get YES ..it is absurd and theatrical .

Marriage is not Boy friend and Girl Friend,where a boy will lie to you just to enter your Pant and a Girl will pretend to love you just to get out money and new phone from you , the truth is that both of you are crooked 419 and fit each other,you give me money ,you slay me .

Just as  you want to enter UBER or any Cab ,you don't ask to see the papers of the Vehicle,you just call a ride ,if there is Problem,you get down and enter another,same way if you call a Hookup and she no come you call another,but if you want to buy that Car ,you start asking for relevant documents to make sure it is not Stolen and that it is legit as well .

A wife is not only who you sleep with at any time and on official capacity.

She will be your savior and your doom,the mother of your kids ,unless you don't have standard,if you have you will know the kind of Future you want for your kids .

Stop marrying anyhow and later you will start crying..Hide my ID and publish for me ..listen there is nothing Facebook fans will do for you if not to cause you pains.

Make inquires before agreeing to marry him or her ,don't be in a haste ,there are lots of hiding things ..you also make enquires about health conditions of both the man and Woman.

Anyway ,let me go and drink AKAMU with Custard that my wife make Maka I worked too hard last night,Mmadu adapu na Uzo,oru Ezi na Uno adiro easy .

I am Mazi Odera POg JP and I come with piss even though I have Baseball Bat,I won't use it today .