Sunday SERMON to Umu Nwanyi Igbo from Dibia ónu ike.

I can't tolerate this shit in my home,I don't want your (Husband families) coming to my house without my permission.. as agbakija Nwanyi ókwaya?

My Advise,your Husband is a weakling for you to start saying that ,listen , it's his House and not yours ,you don't decide what he does to his family and friends. It's him that can restrain your family if , because he Married you and not your family, but Men will keep quiet and women will be fanning the embers. Don't start creating boundaries,it will put you in a quandary.

Woman will say ,if my Husband cheat ,I will cheat back ..

My Advise,if your Husband is not a super weakling,not only you will be ex wife, but you go back home without grace.

If you say you caught your Husband cheating Outside and he now call you and say "I have tried to hide that relationship but now you find out ,kindly move to visitors room as she will be coming to take over the room as my second wife" what will you do ?

You rant,you rave and you pack out because you don't want to be numbered right? But you will start gracing beds of other married Men in a Quickie inside Hotel ,once you are not married Men will enumerate you as Hook-up mommy, while so doing,you will be avoiding wives who are original owners of the preek you are stealing. 

So who wins ?

If you want to get married ,don't go about it with sarcasm,it doesn't pay. There's nothing like equality in marriage,the Man is the head respect him and he install you as Mega Head ,but drag position with him and you be thrown into the curves,forget social Media in-laws who won't use you to replace their mother or brothers wife,if you crash out of marriage ,the best of they hail you as Queen not attached to a king and that's all.

Woman can say ,I will go wherever I want ,in my father's house ,nobody restraints me ..

Advise ; if you truly want unrestricted life style,go back to your father's house ,your Husband you are competing with us not your Father, because he can't sleep with you without your raising eye brows but your father is morally, culturally, spiritually forbid to even see your Nakedness as adult but your husband is over qualified and with mandate to do it.

He is not your father even though some of you calls them Daddy and he calls you mummy,a name that sounds absurd...Your Husband can never be your Daddy or your wife your mummy,both of you are spouses,treat each other with respect, kedu reason why you are calling each other ancient name , thinking it's romantic ? 

You can go back to your father's house to continue enjoying freedom for unmarried,but in a man's house ,he has his own rules that is not same with your Father, respect that . His blood families are not visitors to his house , put that in your skull.

Marriage is advance step up in life, it's never for Girls who refused to stay married,not for boys whose parents forced into marriage,while they are not ready and it forces them to continue as night crawler,once you see such, just know they are mistake of failed parents,some product of Single parenting.

If a man is married, there's restrictions that will make you a good Husband and great Father.

If you think nobody can tell you what to do in marriage,how do you think you can tell your husband what to do in same marriage? Does it not show you have mental issues?

Your psychedelic life ends when you wants to become a mother ,which is why they said BE RESPONSIBLE ..wife must be responsible to the Husband and the Children, it's your responsibility that gives you a happy and good home ,stop competing with your Husband who is more Stewpid and who rave more on the Street.

I am UnReverend and UnPastored but Ógbantutukó ma mbido

 Igba afa, Mkpisi Ndi Egede.