We mustn't train our children same way, but.... written by Mkpisi Ndi Egede.
As much as formula for marriage is individually written,but that of child raising has standard na Alaigbo.
The reason why I poke nose into the way you raise your own children is because when your child becomes anathema to the public or MENACE to his mates or say ana adighi Nma ,my own kids may serve as collateral which the only consolation is gbaghalu Maka Chukwu ,so mgbo chi ógú ka mkpa ,karia inu the war.
If your child throws tantrum at little provocation or whenever he or she wants something done to his/her benefit ,or felling entitled to your thing especially wealth ,the cure should be done without mercies or pity , simply use Útali Ndi Nso and piapu ya agwú na arú.
Take away everything you always proffer to the child,tighten the economy around him or her.
Educate your child that what you owe him or her is weaning,after that you may choose to send him or her to Almajari forest with plate as means of livelihood,that you choose to give them education is passion filled with Love and not entitlement.
Remind him or her that some parents dumped the baby in Trash can or even use them gbazúe afia.
If your toddler always hit the head on the ground,to demonstrate resolve to get things He or she wanted or kwanu start destroying things in the house out of anger ,better cure same by refusing to say sorry or conceding to the ploy ,also use Cane and teach them who is the parent ,unless they packed out of your house .
That act is trying to crack your resolve and impose his will on you,which is manipulation of the parent.
Do not Play with the teaching of the Bible which provides "Spare the Rod,and spoil the Child" ,we have Rod of correction and we shall never despise the usage of that saving Rod.
Finally,if your wife is the type that always insist to have the final say or who decides what must be done in family or there won't be peace if you disagree ,for sake of your life , break away from the BONDAGE, if not ,you may see Your Children use HAMMER 🔨 on your head and Daga to Slice your neck ,but a Stich in time ,saves Nine pence.
When united family gets to Fatal and brutal conspiracy of kpaing the Man for his Wealth, Nwanne sale everything and share the money to relations and less privilege,so it won't cause your albatross.
I am Dibia ónu ike adighi agbalu Ekperima afa, Mkpisi Ndi Egede na ede with precision, Minority opinion writer na mpaghara anyi, Ógba Ntutukó ma obido Igba afa, Media Consultant with Onyokometer, Útali Ndi múó, Conscience of the State.
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