HARD LESSON TO FATHER'S THIS YULETIDE,a lesson before Had i know written by Mkpisi. 

Father's, i come to you with message of Hope and advisory maka old age and days of retirement mgbe Nwoke di tired and retired from Active life.When he need to reap the benefits of his struggles only to discover a fruitless plantation.

I want to talk about our families and removals of Value as we know na Nku mmadu kpalu na okorobia ka óga anya na Agadi, especially some of us who send entire family overseas because afufu akarigo na Nigeria, and you opted to offer them better life away from shackles of Hardship, many families are in LONDON, Canada, America and anywhere but Nigeria,while the Father is acting caring bachelor back home, at this age and time, A man will start cooking and tending to house chores as if he is childless and unmarried,yet they are boasting of having family Overseas,you will hear "ndi bem bi obodo Oyibo" ,and without shame the Man continued to slave without hope.

Once they start enjoying the dividend of Caucasians life style Which will expunge the AFRICAN rooted Godly offspring in them and replace same with Wax and inanities, Nwanne igba aka , especially during your vulnerable years. Then ikpó óku ,iza onwegi and woe betide you ,if you don't have families you helped around you that will pity you and start rendering help to you as Nwa Oseaka.

If you can survive Nigeria,are you saying your genealogy are ngwuro that can't Cope ?. it's a Known ANALOGY which provide "Ejina aka gi egbu onwe gi",You can't Labour to die a wreck which you designed by self.

To the Erring Man ,in his mind , he is a Big Man whose Children have escaped the Misery of the Nation, but the Man is the suffer head that will swim the Shark infested POLITICS and Comatosic economy of the Nation and the dog eat dog of insecurities abound in our States, especially the ones in the East. 

We know na Ukpana na ere aka na ókpa,si na óna aha nmanu, it's a situation of regret at later day ,a married Man should have his wife around him,a Father should have his children growing under his tutolage,so they can learn from his fountain,you can't just exile your families and stay alone wallowing in want and isolation all shrouded as building them Future,sit down and calculate the Brand of Future they will have and your Brand of old age you will witness.

Do i need to tell you that ikwóchalu aka tieru Ókukó aki ? by sending your family outside and staying inside?

How do you think that your uncaged birds that fly the free skies are yours afterall ? You think they will fly back and be caged again ?,the reason farmers struggle and feed the birds is to prevent them from being wild and for them to know the scent of the owner. Dog's respect the owners because you relate to them,if you buy a dog and leave her with the handler,that Dog might bite you any day you walk around without the handler,same with Children,we should remember na Nkita Nwanyi zuru na ata Akwa.

If you truly want to know your tomorrow fate on those families, send MESSAGE of desperation to that same Family that you need them home as matter of life and death ,see if that will happen or they will build reasons that will debar them from coming to your aid. 

Unless you die and they will come to bury you and sale off whatever you left behind and all will travel Overseas again,you have lost them in real world. You are no Longer a choice to them,you are just an ATM or ladder used to Cross the Bridge.

Some Father's even change Naira to Hard currency and send abroad as Caring father, unless you are stealing our patrimonies, if not , you are simply nurturing your heart for heart attack and it must come with a bang. 

All my Children were born abroad, trained abroad, we live together as family abroad, they traveled round the world,when they get to stage where I won't be able to train them with Fear of God and AFRICAN context, but Fear of Government bureaucracy, i brought them back home with myself in tow, maka ana akwo Mmiri ka oka di na óba ókpa,as when it turn to Pond ,you can do Jack .Because I want to have a family that will develop to God fearing with sense and humility with African Vibe,i looked at FUTURE both mine and theirs and do what I choose, you may not like it , but i simply want them to excel. 

They can choose whatever life outside mine as they grow Bigger ,but nobody can say ,i gave them the App that laid them astray.

You can give a monkey Glass of Water to quench the thirst, but can you be able to retrieve the Empty cup? ,He may even stone you with same Cup.

Your family May escape the irony of the Nation into place of refuge, but note that you have detached self as a Father and Head of the family, you can't even tell your Wife how to behave again, not even your children are under your tutolage, they have been giving to the Government who prefer BI SEXUALISM , Divorce and equality, Government that hate parental Upbringing for life of care free and Godless Future. 

A place where you don't have God giving Mandate of being the Head, as you can't caution your erring Children, nor ask your wife to behave, as the laws of Caucasian provide that Man has no say in his house or the Police will turn his life into Misery. Police will divorce you faster than your Wife and Children.

Spare the Rod and spoil the Child is biblical teaching even Bishops in Europe can't preach for fear of government gauntlet.

NOTE AGAIN : If you are back home and your family is resident overseas, just know that the time they will come home is to bury you, so they can share and sale off your properties, read my lips, they are not worried about your life and suffering as a Bachelor with family residing outside, they only care for what you left behind if it's worthy, making life Vanity. 

You can relocate with them , but know that your authority expired at Departure lounge of Nigeria, once you cross Immigration out there, the authority of the House is reposed on the wife, then the overall authority is bestowed on the Children, so you must turn self to Ónuku or you end up on the street, don't forget you will be working Jobs beneath you including Car Driver, Security or care giving (iku agadi Nwoke , na isa agadi Nwanyi aru),the jobs they will give you is demeaning but it didn't end there, you only work to service family that doesn't care for your ailing days. You may think,i am Harsh ,but that's the Tone you will understand, which is the REALITY unhidden.

I wish you what you wish self , don't say nobody told you , i am telling you now .. 

Mkpisi Ndi Egede, Minority Opinion writer na South East, Dibia Onu Ike adighi agbalu Ekperima afa, Nwa Chukwu Ku na aka na onwu agaghi egbunwu ya, Akua Aka egenti Ndi Egede.