MARTIAL APOLOGIES , BREEDING ANATHEMA written by Mkpisi.

From the alter of Mkpisi Ndi Egede, speaking from the PULPIT of scents not Saints,I come for martial surgery and saving our marriages.

Today,our parents give our children to spouses because they find it a profitable enterprise,they don't consider the nightmarish nature of union that must follow when it gets to child raising.

Divorce have become a normal and nobody bat eyelids when all this atrocities are laying eggs within our before,back in the days ,they will say na okenye adighi anó na unó, Ewu amua na ógbiri , but this days even the elders will put the about to deliver goat on tethers and watch them give birth while tethered and it's no longer arú,but Omenani Ndi arúrú Ani.

Come with me ,let's go into perspective..Maka afú ekwughi melu okenye,ma ekwúe anughi melu Azi.

Before a man gets married or a Woman gets married,there must be a requisite iju ase (forget the translation,it makes more sense in Igbo),the iju ase unearth certain abominations or reoccurring incidents attached to the Family or families, it's on iju ase that one can know if the Man is a sickler,it will tell if the family ana Anwu ónwú ike,fa ana Agba Akwuna ,fa ana agwó Nsi , Nwanyi óga emewu di ya which is reflex of what her Mother portend,is the parents divorced?

The Mother of the Girl ,óna ata ikpa ?

Iju ase is not just enquiry, it's a way to circumvent what lies ahead and circumvent had I know,it helps to make marriage last the distance because you must have known what you are walking into.

But today,a girl will perch to a Fine Man or one who seems well to do and they both agreed to marry,they did not factor on certain anomalies that is necessary Evil ,such as ,if her town is allergic to marry from his Town ,which if they discard such with wave of hand ,it will drown them along the path ,which also stood on the saying which provides "What an elder sees sitting down ,a child can't see same even when climb Iroko tree ".

There are towns and families where marriage doesn't work ,no matter how many prayers you said ,you will still get the same bad ending, it's not something you wish away , it's something you stay away from.

During the initial Forensic assessment and enquires,both families will know the does and don't, and understand how the marriage will glo or disintegrate along the road.

Ejiro I love him and I love her as the only parameter to marriage,so many things di involve, they can love selves while both of you are Having indecent CONJUGAL,but once it get's to marriage,just know that even the gods of the land have known your address.

Some marriages wasn't even conducted by both families,they use the shortest cut including caging the man with pregnancy, which we called in the olden days "Ime Mkpuke" and Anglicanized as Single parents today,now we have baptized all abormination to have a glorified algorithm.

A Man you caged with pregnancy has no Traditional hook with you ,both of you are just SEX PARTNERS,any day he had enough he kick you out because you are not married,both of you are enjoying care less Sex ,which the truth is , outside Canonical forbidden of Pre marriage Sex,if you must have it ,go with protection because if you concieve carelessly,be rest assured that you must cry anyam anyam. 

Young Girl with uncircumcised upbringing,hear me ,you don't know how to cook ,wash cloth, clean house and do chores,but in your mind your hubby should get you a maid, don't be angry what is the difference between you and that maid?.

Does she have Goat head and you have human head ?

Does she have Ibúru Eke and you have that of Einstein?

The only difference is that you wear Expensive hair ,which you can't afford but bought by one Onuku,you added eye lashes because your eyes needs protection as you can't see well ,then you have Heels that can alleviate your diminutive stature and you have Nails that look like witches broom .

Behind all those things,you have empty head and Zero quality,the Only thing you know well is Sex and all styles associated with bed mystics.

In real the same anatomies both of you shared,so tell me what made you Classy?.

Some will say I am a big girl, who doesn't have source of livelihood,the only wares you display is EROTICS.

Do you work in any office and earn wages or you expect others to take your bills because you can SEX them up ? Do you understand money making Rubrics?

If your parents, especially your mother did not teach you how to cook,do chores and be a woman who will have her own daughters and also imbibe same skills in them ,just know that your mother is a great Apology.

Some of you want a Man to accept you the way you are ,even you yourself did not accept your self with your natural hair , Buttocks,Breast,eyes, skin color,as you added artificial to everything about you and your face become massacara ,so how can you that changed everything about you want another to accept you the way you are .

Finally,I want to say it again ,that we need iju ase before marriage and we need to stop caging man with Pregnancy because you will regret it .

You need to see marriage from prism of cultured woman and not social media pundits,once you divorce with Children,you have set a toxic precedence to the Children.

You can make your life a path to hell but stop dragging children along with you.

I am Dibia ónu ike adighi agbalu Ekperima afa,Obele Nwa Chukwu ku na Aka na ónwu agaghi egbunwu ya, Mkpisi Ndi Egede and I come in Piss .