ADVISORY TO IGBO YOUTHS written by Mkpisi.

Good Morning young Men about to marry or newly married, today is Saturday and i come with Deliverance Decanter. 

Don't forget that Truth is our standard and if you refuse to accept it with good Faith,we shove it down your throat with smiles. 

What we know is that we shall be planting, let Ókwa the Bush Fowl unearth the seed, imalu na osirozi anyi na aka.

If you want a successful marriage, dianyi never allow your Mother or father-in-law decide the type of marriage you will have or control how things are done in your house.They can suggest,advise but not insist or enforced the implementation.

 They are not the bread winner of that house,they Maybe bread donor and not winner ,the buck stops on your table , don't allow another family to usurp your function,even your own family fall into same category.

Do not allow your wife to decide the type of marriage she like or want,she can suggest as only in suggestion but not to enforce it , just allow your Finance to lead you. 

If you bank account is looking at Morning Mass , so be it , if it's looking at spending like Idjoit, let it lead you , do not allow your in-laws to push you into Society wedding because of their Socital status, if they want elaborate wedding, kindly give them the Bill with clause,THEY MUST GIVE YOU THE MONEY , so you can plan and execute.

Never allow them decide where and how your first duty shall be carried out , show them you are in-law not Slave, don't ever say it doesn't matter because it matters a lot , such is dragging the mantle of the family. 

If they give you the money, use it and buy Land for you and your Wife who is your immediate family, if your in-laws got angry, just thank them for the wedding support,but don't refund or return it. 

If your mother in-law becomes a problem to your family by ill advising the daughter, deny her Visa to your house,she may prepare for trouble but start a War and execute it fiercely,that will grant you freedom as a Man and head of the family,if you allow her, then you are marrying in Bondage.

If your wife want all those Pre wedding Bath and other inaniates, simply ask her to give you the Money for it , if she bring it , just use it to start foundation of a house because after the WASTE called Wedding, the wife will finish you if you can't offer financial protection to her, WOMEN want to impress the world,but Men want a happy home.

During wedding the Wife is like Fowl seller whose Job is to expand the feathers of the Chicken to look Bigger and robust, while the Man is the Buyer that will be clasping the feathers,so the Bird will look it original size.

 If you remind her that she pushed you into borrowing to Wed, she will tell you that you are a Man who will take decisions, please don't allow anybody to push you. 

Marriage is not just wedding,but what happens after the wedding and after the Birth of Children, nobody will come to hear your miserable story on how you spent all your Money training her in School and on wedding, that's purely ajambene.

As for committee of friends that will raise Money for your wedding, and you bank on it for wedding spending, be on notice that if they raise money for your wedding, they also have right to raise Sperm that will fertilize your Child, as you accept their money , you should accept other Gift from them. Asikwona na Ñwanyi gbalu na iro ,as you show her the route.

You should cut your Coat 🧥 according to your Cloth, it's no Longer cutting your coat according to your size, size now is not the measure but the availability of clothing. 

To be a Man , you must always provide for the family, not spending your money in trivial things, if your wife is the type that uses expensive Soap, Cream, perfume, Wig and other stuff, simply tell her what you can afford, if she want to continue Using expensive things, she should be Using salary she earn from her work to sustain self , what you owe her is food on the table and taking care of other house hold expense, not extravagant lifestyle, if she doesn't want a better family but personal padded life filled with deceit, kindly allow her to go and continue her street life while you marry a lady that is ready to make a Family. 

Those Men who gives girl friend monthly upkeep,do me a favor, slap your self 4 times on the right ear and call self Ónuku..if you keep solving your girlfriend need,what then will you do to your Sisters, mother and Wife when if she become one ?.

If your in-laws gifted you wedding gift of Car , but handed it to the daughter, stand there instantly and ask her to return it to them or sale it, as they have bridged Gap and created hireachy and Making the Lady to see the family as rescuer and the husband incompetent, if the in-law wants to help , they should give it to the Man , so he will remain the head of the house, but if they so much love the daughter, they shouldn't marry her off , if they can allow school to have her without interference, they should allow her to enjoy marriage without interference. 

if she brought the Car home,sale it or gather wahala unlimited, it's either she married you based on your ability or she marry her family in their own house ,not they will come and colonize you in your own house.

In-laws should know that the day they sign marriage dotted line was the day they washed hands off the Girl and send her to her own Family. 

They should allow her to enjoy and create own marriage without Outside interference.

Man, if you so much love your side Chic, just marry her and after 3 Months you will see that Delilah was even merciful with Sampson, it's nature of Women, just manage the one you have , they can't be what you expected and stop seeing them as Understanding type, just continue teaching, and directing.

 If they can fault God who gave them Eye Lash which they shaved and buy artificial, is it you that will give them what they won't shelve? 

If God gave them pretty face and they cover same with Cosmetic and Powder that make them to look like masquerade, is it you that will give them what will make them elated? 

They have pretty hair, but they Choose expensive imported Hair of some Mami water to cover the empty skull.

If God can give them Nyash and they bought artificial Nyash just to make it bigger thereby making God unfair, you should know that they have problem with trust. 

Young Man you want a happy home, work according to what you have in your bank account, not what you are expecting, don't show your Wife everything in your account as she must want all used today, forgetting about Famine days ,men save for Rainy days, which was why a man will be alive building his family Future, once he dies the wife will start expensive life style and the money will go like powder in the wind. 

Ladies,stop trying to search your husband phone,he is not protecting it from his cheating ways,if that is the problem,you check it,saw it ,cry and leave,but they are protecting Bank Credit, debts they owe and money they have but belonging to suppliers which a woman don't care about,they care about spending it even if it's loan.

Lastly, don't join the FAST LANE to Making wealth. That route is demonic, it can only give you money for brief period and agony for rest of your life. 

I remain Mazi Odera POg JP, Mkpisi Ndi Egede, Minority Opinion writer na South East, Dibia Onu Ike adighi agbalu Ekperima afa, Nwa Chukwu Ku na aka na onwu agaghi egbunwu ya, Akua Aka egenti Ndi Egede, Minority Opinion writer na South East, Anu ana agba Egbe ona arigo na aritu.